Thursday, May 17, 2007

Getting on my soapbox!


I have reached a point where I am ABSOLUTELY fed up with some people. Now, this rant may very well expose me as a "lunatic" to some, but I really don't give a fuck. I am not the problem. You are. I am enjoying the free spirit of my Gemini personality. I am happy. I have lots to be thankful for. God gave me one life to live... and I am living it. I do not need any of your opinions on how I am living my life. If I want to put silly polls or pics on my blog... then so what? Who are you to judge what I put on my blog? Being mature means having no sense of humor? Since when? What a shame you take everything I do so seriously.

Let's run down a few things in case you haven't been paying any attention. I am out to my family and co-workers. I don't live in fear of someone finding out things about my personal life. I live on the family farm and work for the family business. The head knocker is my father. He controls everything. He has been controlling everything for my entire life. Don't you think that perhaps my "immaturity" is totally related to growing up in that kind of environment?

Now don't make me start wagging my tongue about a man well over 40 who can't come out the closet because he is scared of his own shadow. Who are you scared of? Your Mama? Your brother or sister? Who are you living for? Them or you? Rather than worry about my maturity level, fix your own self first. By the way, I came out to everyone 10 years ago. When are you going to grow up and do the same? And no... I am not taking this post down. You've done riled me up too much.

28 Comments:

Anonymous Jeff said...

You just keep getting better!!!

May 17, 2007  
Anonymous mark said...

Have these people ever hard about people who live in glass houses?

Funny how people want to tell others how to live their life, how to act, what to do, what not to do. Like they're some sort of experts. I say live and let live. Be who you are and fuck anyone who doesn't like it.

I wasn't put on this earth to make people like me. You either do or you don't. It's a good motto.

May 17, 2007  
Blogger Addison said...

Always remember, people most vehemently abhor things in others that they don't like about themselves. You hit the nail on the head here, Brett.

May 17, 2007  
Blogger Texas Smurf said...

Love you Brett! Fuck em all! (literally and figuratively)

May 17, 2007  
Blogger daveincleveland said...

i agree with smurf.......with the process of coming out for me i have to seperate whom i do and don't care about and people who don't like for who i really am..well fuck em

May 17, 2007  
Blogger Brent said...

Um...where did that come from? I agree with you totally. You don't get a "do over" for your life, better live it the first (and only) time around.

May 17, 2007  
Blogger MiKell said...

Oh, good. I love the smell of blogwar in the morning.

You came out 10 years ago? Call you "Mister Late to the Party" already!!
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I wouldn't take it down, either. Screw 'em if they don't get the joke.

May 17, 2007  
Blogger Homer said...

Honey, you can be immature all over my face anytime you want.

May 17, 2007  
Blogger Pete said...

Sorry to hear someone got your underwear all bunched up your ass but if you need help removing them please let me know.

May 17, 2007  
Anonymous rob said...

You go Brett!

May 17, 2007  
Blogger Moby said...

My best two cents after reading what set you off and the following comments is you are both right. I'll skip the implications and finger pointing and just focus on you my charming friend.

Maturity can be a very stabilizing force in one's life. To me, maturity is learning to look beyond our petty base emotions (fear, anger, jealousy, resentment). If one truly struggles to be a better person, maturity must enter the picture at some point. But that is only one part of personal growth.

I think you might be confusing maturity with spontaneity. The latter being a very nice trait of yours as well as myself. Being stuffy or old before your time is not the same as being mature. Far from it.

As I've told you many times, you waste too much energy worrying about what others think of you. What YOU think of yourself is important. Yes, this is part of maturity. However, it does not make you "immature" in the derogatory sense. It just means you have room to grow as well all do. That is part of life.

On a completely different note, you need to send me your itinerary for next month!g

May 18, 2007  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Bitch, bitch bitch, whine whine whine. You really are a sad little man. You sound like a spoiled 12 year old who didn't get asked to the county fair. "I don't care! It doesn't matter to me, anyway!" Sob, sob, sob.

Of course it matters to you. Of course it bothers you. You wouldn't spend so much time whining about it if it didn't.

You might be a nice guy in real life, who knows? But on this blog, you come across as a bitchy, superficial, egotistical putz. Don't be surprised when people call you out on that.

May 18, 2007  
Blogger BRETTCAJUN said...

Thank you guys. You are the best. :) Isn't just so unseemly when I fly off the handle like that? I blame it on my coonnass blood. We get mad as a hatter quicker than you can shake a stick.

I am moving on from the situation. I said my piece. And I am not deleting anything from my blog either. Whatever was done is done. I am going to keep all the highs and lows on this blog. One day, I may look back on it all and smile about the humor in all of it.

Moby: I will resend you my itinerary to SF. I am flying in around noon on Thursday and I leave early Monday morning (9:30am I think). On a sidenote: As always... I respect your wisdom Moby. ;)

May 18, 2007  
Blogger BRETTCAJUN said...

God I love Anonymous posters. JEEZ. When you have a blog, I'll be sure to inform you when you are fucking up. Fair?

May 18, 2007  
Blogger Bigg said...

Ah, jeez, by the time I get there the fun stuff's always already over. Just so I know, what put such a bee in your bonnet?

May 18, 2007  
Blogger Atari_Age said...

I never have any idea who's reaming you out? I'm guessing it's on another blog.

Regardless - man, people read far to much into what's put in these blogs. It's rarely - if ever - the whole story about a person.

In some cases, it's even a side of the person they don't normally express in person.

On top of that, arguing about matters of substance is great. Arguing whether someone is a poopy-head is kinda pointless, most of the time.

May 18, 2007  
Anonymous Clayton said...

I've been reading your blog for about a month..its good, and you are cute, but the one thing that turns me off, regardless of the person, is narcissism. One or two pics of yourself is fine, but continuous poses of you time after time becomes comical and sad. Stick to interesting subject matter and commentary...it makes it so much better.

May 18, 2007  
Blogger BRETTCAJUN said...

Clayton... I have to get my money's worth from the photographer that took 300 pics. I am TRYING to use them only sparingly but it's so tough.

May 18, 2007  
Blogger daveincleveland said...

ok handsome, and i am sure i speak for many others..keep the pics coming your too damned cute and hot to not show the pics
.....:)
dave

May 18, 2007  
Blogger Moby said...

Screw that. keep the pics coming...

May 18, 2007  
Anonymous Jim (The Canuck One) said...

Three words for you, baby: Full Frontal Nudity.

May 18, 2007  
Anonymous IRV said...

I LOVE YOUR PICS-Who wouldn't. Keep them purdy pics cummin!

May 18, 2007  
Blogger one3y3 said...

Wow... sorry to hear about whatever/whoever got you worked up. It's your blog, and you have a right to say what you want.

With that said, don't be surprised when someone shows up and writes their opinions that may go against yours. It happens to a lot of bloggers.

Stay strong, do your thing, and just keep thinking--something is bringing people back to read you. I'm sure it's more than just those pics of you (well, maybe for some, LOL).

May 19, 2007  
Blogger S. said...

It was other people's opinions that made me nearly stop blogging and STILL Fearing it a bit. Don't back down...saw what you want and be who you are.

love you buddy...miss you too! Get ur ass on up to Indiana so we can show you a GOOD time *wink*

May 20, 2007  
Blogger Lacey said...

I like the pics. The photog did a nice job. They're interesting, too. In some of them , you look like just a regular guy. then in other's you look like the cover of a XXX rated video. It's cool, really. You obviously worked hard to get in shape. May as well flaunt it as long as you got it.

May 21, 2007  
Blogger Darin said...

Oh man..after meeting Brett in person - I could add SOOO much to this thread. But it's not worth. it.

May 22, 2007  
Blogger BRETTCAJUN said...

You'll get your chance to read me in four weeks Darin.

May 22, 2007  
Blogger seth (on the left) said...

you go cajun boy!!! I love reading about your sexy self

May 25, 2007  

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